The misty rain stopped and the sun peaked out. I had borrowed entertainment for Milo in the form of a play mate for the afternoon, so that hazard was sorted. On an errand to the garage I spied the tray of plants I brought home from work yesterday. THAT’s what I needed. Some peaceful weeding an an opportunity to mull over the last chapter of the book I was reading.
“Can I help you plant those flowers?” Naomi asked as she watched me collect my tray. I hesitated. I really just wanted an escape….but I OUGHT to enjoy her company. “Ok,” I consented, bowing my shoulders.
“I can put the plants in the holes,” she offered.
“I’ll pick up your jersey and hang it here on my scooter so it doesn’t get grassy,” she continued, thoughtfully.
“I’ll get the green bin for those weeds,” she enthused, as she trundled a wheely bin twice her size up the driveway.
In short, she was a joy to have around. I felt guilty for wanting solitude in the first place.
It’s amazing how the situation can feel the exact opposite that self same morning.
“Milo, stop! Don’t grab from Naomi!” He finishes the lego-recovery-mission he had embarked upon as if he was deaf. Naomi howls. Milo swats. Naomi kicks. “STOP!” I yell, grabbing his arm. “SIT BACK DOWN AND FINISH YOUR OATMEAL.” “YOU sit back down and finish your breakfast too,” I command Naomi. She sits next to Milo. Milo crawls over the table and sits at the other end. She moves again to sit next to him, dribbling milk along the way. He walks over the table top, grinning at me. Then he and his oatmeal get banished to the porch, where he sits and bangs on the window. Going to work is so much easier, I think, rubbing my eyes that feel tired and old. I take a sip of the cup of tea which I never manage to drink hot and wondering how to break this miserable cycle.