Mud and Chocolate, a two-year-old’s paradise

Governor's Bay is on the other side of the Port Hills, the center of an old extinct volcano.  We took a walk there on a beautiful sunny morning and stopped to relocate some snails in the tidal pools.  Milo discovered that the mud slippers are pretty tough to wash off!

Governor’s Bay is on the other side of the Port Hills, the center of an old extinct volcano. We took a walk there on a beautiful sunny morning and stopped to relocate some snails in the tidal pools. Milo discovered that the mud slippers are pretty tough to wash off!

Perfectly situated at the end of the bay walkway is She Chocolate, a chocolate-lover's dream.  The little cafe makes their truffles by hand, even giving instructions on how to consume them for the maximum gustatory experience.  We splurged on hot chocolate, mocha, and brownie sundae....and I have to say that it was the best hot chocolate that I've ever consumed.

Perfectly situated at the end of the bay walkway is She Chocolate, a chocolate-lover’s dream. The little cafe makes their truffles by hand, even giving instructions on how to consume them for the maximum gustatory experience. We splurged on hot chocolate, mocha, and brownie sundae….and I have to say that it was the best hot chocolate that I’ve ever consumed.

Milo's chocolate milk came with a chocolate turtle perched on the lip of the glass, most of which made it into his happy little mouth!

Milo’s chocolate milk came with a chocolate turtle perched on the lip of the glass, most of which made it into his happy little mouth!

Let's hope this little finch shared the crumbs with it's babies!  What great pickings!

Let’s hope this little finch shared the crumbs with it’s babies! What great pickings!

Castles and Punchbowls

Last Sunday we spent a gloriously sunny day tooling around Arthur's Pass, the national park right up in the divide of the Southern Alps.

Last Sunday we spent a gloriously sunny day tooling around Arthur’s Pass, the national park right up in the divide of the Southern Alps.

Here's our Castle!  Castle Hill, that is.  Sunday we drove up to Arthur's pass, stopping at these fascinating limestone formations.  I wish I could see the geological history of the past however-many millions of years in fast forward, watching the sculpting of this landscape.

Here’s our Castle! Castle Hill, that is. The stones are limestone, and have been weathered by fierce wind and rain to somehow make these fascinating shapes.  I wish I could see the geological history of the past however-many millions of years in fast forward, watching the sculpting of this landscape.

Here's the king of the castle, sitting on his throne!

Here’s the king of the castle, sitting on his throne!

Now he's King Bidgood in the Bathtub, who doesn't want to get out!  Milo was fascinated by this round bowl in the rock and spent the rest of the time there looking for more "bathtubs."

Now he’s King Bidgood in the Bathtub, who doesn’t want to get out! Milo was fascinated by this round bowl in the rock and spent the rest of the time there looking for more “bathtubs.”

I liked this little nest, warm in the sun with my new little chickie.  We felt like munchkins.

I liked this little nest, warm in the sun with my new little chickie. We felt like munchkins.

Milo paused from his bathtub hunt long enough to ROARRRR!  Castle Hill would be perfect for a massive gave of hide-and-seek, and Milo's current version of that game includes a lot of noisy tiger roars with simulated finger claws.

Milo paused from his bathtub hunt long enough to ROARRRR! Castle Hill would be perfect for a massive gave of hide-and-seek, and Milo’s current version of that game includes a lot of noisy tiger roars with simulated finger claws.

The second bathtub we found was big enough for the whole family.  Castle Hill is also a working farm, and from our perch in the tub we watched the farmer and his dogs gather their sheep.

The second bathtub we found was big enough for the whole family. Castle Hill is also a working farm, and from our perch in the tub we watched the farmer and his dogs gather their sheep.

Aw, family photo.  We realized that getting four people to simultaneously look and smile is exponentially more difficult even than three.  3 out of 4 isn't bad....

Aw, family photo. We realized that getting four people to simultaneously look and smile is exponentially more difficult even than three. 3 out of 4 isn’t bad….

Further up the valley we took a walk to a waterfall called the Devil's Punchbowl--you can see it behind Milo.  I rather like the fanciful names.  They're much more interesting than naming features after people.

Further up the valley we took a walk to a waterfall called the Devil’s Punchbowl–you can see it behind Milo. I rather like the fanciful names. They’re much more interesting than naming features after people.

Here's what the waterfall looks like up closer, squinting through the blowing mist.  It is just one of dozens of such waterfalls in Arthur's pass, but it's notable in that it's accessible by a well maintained path and over 200 stairs.

Here’s what the waterfall looks like up closer, squinting through the blowing mist. It is just one of dozens of such waterfalls in Arthur’s pass, but it’s notable in that it’s accessible by a well maintained path and over 200 stairs.

Milo climbed all of those 200 stairs by himself, both up and down.  Bravo, little hiker-in-training!  We haven't quite figured out the logistics of carrying two children plus camping gear, so many of our future trips will be contingent on Milo's stamina.

Milo climbed all of those 200 stairs by himself, both up and down. Bravo, little hiker-in-training! We haven’t quite figured out the logistics of carrying two children plus camping gear, so many of our future trips will be contingent on Milo’s stamina.

Most of the stairs were wooden, climbing through the beech forest like a tree fort, but these last ones were stone.

Most of the stairs were wooden, climbing through the beech forest like a tree fort, but these last ones were stone.

Daddy and Milo, what a cute pair.

Daddy and Milo, what a cute pair.

Here's Omi and Milo, also a cute pair.  What a funny perspective, with Omi looking smaller than Milo.  I guess that trick of the camera is appropriate, here in the land of the Hobbits.

Here’s Omi and Milo, also a cute pair. What a funny perspective, with Omi looking smaller than Milo. I guess that trick of the camera is appropriate, here in the land of the Hobbits.

Sugar stop!  Milo was flagging a little at the top of the hill so we sat down and tanked him up with a marshmallow.  The adults discussed how tastes change--marshmallows are so unappetizing to us now but are universally beloved by children.

Sugar stop! Milo was flagging a little at the top of the hill so we sat down and tanked him up with a marshmallow. The adults discussed how tastes change–marshmallows are so unappetizing to us now but are universally beloved by children.

Abi, this stream photo is for you.  You could drink from it if you wanted too---it was snow not too long ago.  I have yet to learn what minerals in particular in the "glacial flour" makes the water that peculiar color blue.

Abi, this stream photo is for you. You could drink from it if you wanted too—it was snow not too long ago. I have yet to learn what minerals in particular in the “glacial flour” makes the water that peculiar color blue.

You can't visit Arthur's Pass (one of the few roads connecting the east coast to the west coast of New Zealand's South Island) without talking about the keas.  These mischievous mountain parrots are notorious for their bold antics, such as picking the rubber out from around your car windows with their strong beaks.

You can’t visit Arthur’s Pass (one of the few roads connecting the east coast to the west coast of New Zealand’s South Island) without talking about the keas. These mischievous mountain parrots are notorious for their bold antics, such as picking the rubber out from around your car windows with their strong beaks.

Two kids, two quilts

My grandmother Mommom made each of us a special quilt when we were kids, and Omi has taken on this tradition with my children.  She gave Milo his quilt when he was an infant.

My grandmother Mommom made each of us a special quilt when we were kids.  We loved them and used them for years–I still have mine.  Omi has taken on this tradition with my children. She gave Milo his quilt when he was an infant, and he sleeps on it every night.

Omi brought Naomi's quilt with her when she came to New Zealand.  The pattern is called "Trip Around the World," which seemed quite appropriate in this case!

Omi brought Naomi’s quilt with her when she came to New Zealand. The pattern is called “Trip Around the World,” which seemed quite appropriate in this case!

"Match, Match!" Milo says.  Two kids, two quilts.

“Match, Match!” Milo says. Two lovely kids, two lovely quilts.

Kaikoura with the kids

Kaikoura is a peninsula outcrop into the ocean about 3 hours north of Christchurch, and a popular little weekend get-away.  The shallow shelves of rock you see over the bluff were traditional Maori food collection spots--full of fish, crayfish, and paua (a one-sided shell fish).  We walked the pathway around the peninsula the first day we stayed there.

Kaikoura is a peninsula outcrop into the ocean about 3 hours north of Christchurch, and a popular little weekend get-away….and one on which we tried out our two-child-travel-technique recently.  The shallow shelves of rock you see over the bluff were traditional Maori food collection spots–full of fish, crayfish, and paua (a one-sided shell fish). We walked the pathway around the peninsula the first day we stayed there. 

 

Jeremiah and I visited Kaikoura about a year ago and one of my favorite activities was poking around in the tidal pools.  They're full of snails, kelp, and other interesting tidbits (like dead crabs)....not as colorful and exotic as the spectacular orange and purple starfish in the pools off the Oregon coast, but still fun.  Milo towed his boat through the canals for a bit.

Jeremiah and I visited Kaikoura about a year ago and one of my favorite activities was poking around in the tidal pools. They’re full of snails, kelp, and other interesting tidbits (like dead crabs)….not as colorful and exotic as the spectacular orange and purple starfish in the pools off the Oregon coast, but still fun. Milo towed his boat through the canals for a bit.

Thumbs up Omi and Milo!

Thumbs up Omi and Milo!

Jeremiah's dutifully being the daddy today, carrying Naomi.  There were lots of black wet-suit clad guys dart fishing and collecting paua and crayfish (we'd call them lobsters without the big claws), and Jeremiah watched them enviously.  Free diving isn't really a family activity and it takes a lot of gear, but he'd sure like to get into it.

Jeremiah’s dutifully being the daddy today, carrying Naomi. There were lots of black wet-suit clad guys dart fishing and collecting paua and crayfish (we’d call them lobsters without the big claws), and Jeremiah watched them enviously. Free diving isn’t really a family activity and it takes a lot of gear, but he’d sure like to get into it.

Kaikoura is known for its seal colony.  "Stinky seals" Milo says, wrinkling his nose and waving his fingers in front of it.  They surely are stinky!  They emit a rank odor of feces, and you smell them before you see them.  They were lazing about like giant slugs on these rocks, with the red-legged gulls nesting above.

Kaikoura is known for its seal colony. “Stinky seals” Milo says, wrinkling his nose and waving his fingers in front of it. They surely are stinky! They emit a rank odor of feces, and you smell them before you see them. They were lazing about like giant slugs on these rocks, with the red-legged gulls nesting above.

Handsome birds, but they have horrible manners and cranky voices.

Handsome birds, but they have horrible manners and cranky voices.

I could spend hours beach combing, finding intricate sea urchin shells and bright orange crayfish legs to clutter up the shelves of our house.

I could spend hours beach combing, finding intricate sea urchin shells and bright orange crayfish legs to clutter up the shelves of our house.

We stayed overnight at this little hotel and Milo took it upon himself to sweep the driveway in the morning.  He does like a project!

We stayed overnight at this little hotel and Milo took it upon himself to sweep the driveway in the morning. He does like a project!

A former sheep farm on the peninsula has switched gears to agrotourism, in this case twice-daily sheep shearing demonstrations.  Pete wears a shirt declaring "Two a day," as opposed to the typical professional's 400 sheep-per-day or the record holder's 800-something per day (that's one every 37 seconds, if you can imagine that).  We contributed to the local economy by taking in a show, complete with multiple photo opts.

A former sheep farm on the peninsula has switched gears to agrotourism, in this case twice-daily sheep shearing demonstrations. Pete wears a shirt declaring “Two a day,” as opposed to the typical professional’s 400 sheep-per-day or the record holder’s 800-something per day (that’s one every 37 seconds, if you can imagine that). We contributed to the local economy by taking in Pete’s spiel, complete with multiple photo ops.  Here Pete is shearing a Drysdale sheep, the breed that grows so much wool that it has to be shorn twice a year.

One of the photo opts was with a pair of ram horns from a Drysdale sheep.

One of the photo ops was with a pair of ram horns from a Drysdale sheep.

Another photo op was with a 5 day old lamb.  I'm impressed with how capable a lamb is after only 5 days of life outside, as compared to Naomi.

Another photo op was with a 5 day old lamb. I’m impressed with how capable a lamb is after only 5 days of life outside, as compared to Naomi.

First major break-down

First breakdown of a car that is.  Today we had planned to go out to the very end of the Banks Peninsula and do a barbeque at a beach, but the green car didn't cooperate.  We got almost to the top of the last mountain when steam started wisping out from under the hood.  We stopped, hear a "poof" followed by more steam, and Jeremiah's underhanded  comment, "that's not good."  We poured water into the radiator, waited a few minutes, and started her up again.  She stalled soon after.  Not good at all.  We made some peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, gave the car more water to drink, and called the mechanic in Akaroa.

First breakdown of a car that is. Today we had planned to go out to the very end of the Banks Peninsula and do a barbeque at a beach, but the green car didn’t cooperate. We got almost to the top of the last mountain on a one lane dirt road when steam started wisping out from under the hood. We stopped, hear a “poof” followed by more steam, and Jeremiah’s underhanded comment, “that’s not good.” We poured water into the radiator, waited a few minutes, and started her up again. She stalled soon after. Not good at all. We made some peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, gave the car more water to drink, and called the mechanic in Akaroa.  “Why Daddy sad?” Milo kept asking.  “Because the green car is broken, honey,” we kept answering him.  Amazingly, we had cell reception, and even more surprisingly, there was someone at the garage on Saturday on a holiday weekend.  After a good rest the car did restart and make it back down the hill to Akaroa town, a much better scenario than I had envisioned, carrying two children and some water back down the hill in the baking sun. 

Milo had been all geared up to go to the beach, but thankfully there was a beach in Akaroa too.  We broke out the sand toys and got grit in every orifice while we waited for the mechanic to assess the car.

Milo had been all geared up to go to the beach, but thankfully there was a beach in Akaroa too. We broke out the sand toys and got grit in every orifice while we waited for the mechanic to assess the car.

Not only was there a beach in Akaroa, but there was also a nice little playground, and a willing Omi to play with.  What more could a kid want?

Not only was there a beach in Akaroa, but there was also a nice little playground, and a willing Omi to play with. What more could a kid want?

Ice cream of course!  That wasn't even in the day's plans, it was a break-down bonus.

Ice cream of course! That wasn’t even in the day’s plans, it was a break-down bonus.  Notice that he has bitten the tip off the cone–tactical error on his part.  I guess we haven’t given him enough ice cream cones for him to figure that out yet.

Jeremiah got bus tickets on the Akaroa shuttle back to Christchurch, so Milo's trip ended in an exciting bus ride...even though he was zonked out for most of it.

Jeremiah got bus tickets on the Akaroa shuttle back to Christchurch, so Milo’s trip ended in an exciting bus ride…even though he was zonked out for most of it.

Here's the amazing thing:  Our car broke down at the TOP of the hill, at a rare location where we could just about coast back down into town, when the weather was gorgeous, and where bus transport was available back to not only Christchurch, but right to Halswell where we live.  Thank you Jesus!  Milo had a great day, all a two year old could ask for, including the adventure of riding a bus back home and taking a bath in the sink.

Here’s the amazing thing: Our car broke down at the TOP of the hill, at a rare location where we could just about coast back down into town, when the weather was gorgeous, and where bus transport was available back to not only Christchurch, but right to Halswell where we live. Thank you Jesus! Milo had a great day, all a two year old could ask for, including the adventure of riding a bus back home and taking a bath in the sink.  Most of our destinations wouldn’t have worked out nearly so well. 

Rub a dub dub.  We didn't quite get the sand out of Milo's and Naomi's ears, but the rest of their bodies got cleaned up.

Rub a dub dub. We didn’t quite get the sand out of Milo’s and Naomi’s ears, but the rest of their bodies got cleaned up.  A happy day after all. The mechanic thinks the car engine is probably ok, no cracked heads as far as he can tell, but we had a hole in a radiator hose and in the radiator itself, so the green car has stayed on extended vacation in Akaroa until repairs can be made. 

 

Special times with Omi

Every morning Omi gets up with Milo around 7:00, letting Naomi and I sleep in a bit.  She and Milo love reading books, many of them the same books that I remember her reading to me as a kid.

Every morning Omi gets up with Milo around 7:00, letting Naomi and I sleep in a bit. She and Milo love reading books, many of them the same books that I remember her reading to me as a kid.

Milo and Omi are admiring Naomi and her funny expressions, yawns, and wiggles.  Milo hasn't asked to send her back yet, and in fact he still likes to hold her and watch her diaper changes.  We'll see if that lasts.... It's really great that Omi can be here to give him lots of extra attention.

Milo and Omi are admiring Naomi and her funny expressions, yawns, and wiggles. Milo hasn’t asked to send her back yet, and in fact he still likes to hold her and watch her diaper changes. We’ll see if that lasts…. It’s really great that Omi can be here to give him lots of extra attention.

Justine, who watched Milo while I worked (though not now because I'm enjoying maternity leave), gave Milo his new shirt, "World's Best Big Brother."  He's proud of that role!

Justine, who watched Milo while I worked (though not now because I’m enjoying maternity leave), gave Milo his new shirt, “World’s Best Big Brother.” He’s proud of that role!


Milo’s showing off his “wheels on the bus” singing skills, as part of his repertoire of the World’s Best Big Brother, “yay, yay!”

Long awaited arrival

The long-awaited day has finally arrived--Omi's plane came in this afternoon.  The whole sequence worked just like Milo had planned "Baby come out, Omi comes plane, Pick up Omi in red car."  Mom actually had a surprising amount of energy after her 30-something hour trip, so we went to Hagley park, played on the playground, and got celebratory smoothies.  About 7:30 the trip caught up with Omi.  Her she and Naomi are cozying up, keeping each other company.

The long-awaited day has finally arrived–Omi’s plane came in this afternoon. The whole sequence worked just like Milo had planned “Baby come out; Omi comes, Plane; Pick up Omi, Red Car.” Mom actually had a surprising amount of energy after her 30-something hour trip, so we went to Hagley park, played on the playground, and got celebratory smoothies. About 7:30 the trip caught up with Omi. Here she and Naomi are cozying up, keeping each other company.

Big Brother Love

Jeremiah made scrumptious chocolate cakes in honor of Naomi's coming home from the hospital, and Milo was more than happy to help stir and lick the spoons!

Jeremiah made scrumptious chocolate cakes in honor of Naomi’s coming home from the hospital, and Milo was more than happy to help stir and lick the spoons!  I sat on the couch and chuckled as Jeremiah learned the impossibility of setting a bowl of interesting batter in front of a 2 year old, along with a spoon, then instructing him to “not touch.”  I think the separated egg whites got dumped back into the bowl too, but the cakes came out great anyway. 

milo reads to Naomi

Christchurch library gives a book to every newborn, and Milo’s proudly reading Naomi her book. It didn’t bother him in the least that she was fast asleep for his performance!

 

Bada bing Bada boom baby!

Naomi Shaw “baby stats”:

  • Born at 11:30pm on October 12, 2013.
  • 6lbs11oz
  • perfect
  • gorgeous

I’ve had thousands of braxton-hicks contractions over the few months, but Saturday morning I commented to Jeremiah that those little contractions felt a bit different and they might be for real.  He looked at me with wide eyes, wondering what that meant for his day’s plans.  Nothing much, I said.  Let’s go the farmers market as planned, and we’ll just see how it goes.

After the farmers market I did some gardening while Jeremiah went to the shooting range.  Contractions continued gently while I took Milo to a theatre (yes, we’re in NZ, so that’s the correct spelling) production of Alice in Wonderland.

It wasn’t until a bit before dinner that I called the midwife, and she suggested that I take a brisk walk and then see if things picked up or settled down before evening.  Milo and I went, dodging the raindrops.  We called our friends after dinner and asked if Milo could do a sleep-over, just in case, so he was cozily ensconced at their house before 8:00.  We left for the birthing center at 9:30, waters broke at 11:20, and she was out by 11:30.  I’ll spare the rest of the details, but it was efficient, as the midwife put it.

It’s amazing how perfect babies come out.  After all those months of feeling muffled thumbs inside, I guess it wouldn’t surprise me if they came out a bit amorphous.  But they come out with perfect little miniature features.  They go from taking all their nourishment through their belly cord to breathing air and sucking milk (ok, well, colostrum) in almost an instant.  When you think about it, it’s amazing how often the whole process goes just right!

Here is Naomi just minutes after she emerged into the air.  It's hard to believe that those old lady wrinkly hands belong to those soft perfect baby lips.

Here is Naomi just minutes after she emerged into the air. It’s hard to believe that those old lady wrinkly hands belong to those soft perfect baby lips.

That's right, those are Rhododendrons in the background.  October is spring in New Zealand.

That’s right, those are Rhododendrons in the background. October is spring in New Zealand.

Milo came to see Naomi the morning after she was born with a bouquet of flowers and a thumbs up "good job Mommy!"  Well primed, Jeremiah!  he couldn't wait to hold her and exclaim over her little fingers and ears and toes.

Milo came to see Naomi the morning after she was born with a bouquet of flowers and a thumbs up “good job Mommy!” Well primed, Jeremiah! he couldn’t wait to hold her and exclaim over her little fingers and ears and toes.

Here's a good picture of our early days with Naomi.  Jeremiah is trying to direct Milo in gentleness, care of his exuberantly flailing limbs, etc.  Milo just wants to TOUCH her.  Naomi is blissfully unaware of the drama.

Here’s a good picture of our early days with Naomi. Jeremiah is trying to direct Milo in gentleness, care of his exuberantly flailing limbs, etc. Milo just wants to TOUCH her. Naomi is blissfully unaware of the drama.