Godley Head hike with a new friend

Last weekend we went hiking at Godley Head (a point on the Banks Peninsula near Christchurch) at the invitation of Jennifer, a new friend that Jeremiah met at an engineering conference. There’ enough common ground just sharing a nationality to befriend other Americans here, and Jennifer likes hiking to boot. It was a gorgeous day, first really warm (almost hot) day we’ve had this spring, and conversation never flagged.

Lyttelton Harbor is way down below, the ancient mouth of the volcano.

Sheep now climb on the WWII remnants built to defend NZ against invaders. This was an observation post to eyeball ships approaching Lyttelton harbor. Jeremiah works with a man whose great uncle was a fisherman at the time. Fishing boats approaching the harbor were supposed to give a special secret signal to let observers know who they were, but the uncle forgot one day. They sunk his ship and he died. I bet all the other fishermen remembered to signal after that!

Sheep undoubtedly have the best views in this country, and they are totally unconcerned that the abandoned building they clamber on has so much worrying history behind it.

Milo can’t say much in terms of words yet, but when he saw these sheep he made sure we knew about them (and how cool they were), gesticulating and being quite articulate in his own way.

Biker Dude

I came home yesterday to find Milo and Jeremiah in the back yard, Milo in the cutest most outrageous get-up ever. Who can beat a bright yellow and black bike, red shades, a blue sun hat, moccasins and NO PANTS for this little biker dude? He’s clutching his cell phone and mechanical pencil, all ready to help Daddy out building his sandbox.
I think God gave kids extra cuteness as a survival strategy. We have plenty of those parenting moments where if it was anyone but your own child bugging you, you’d punch them in the nose. This morning I retreated from the breakfast and sandwich-making mayhem to spend two minutes in the bathroom, on the toilet, all by myself. Then the door knob I thought was locked starts to jiggle and a cheeky little face peers around the edge. “Pee! Pee! Pee!” he announces. Then he wants to shove past me and see into the toilet, and have little pieces of toilet paper to wipe on his nose, then flutter into the potty, then he wants to brush his teeth….. I used to wonder at moms that would complain in exasperation that they just wanted to POOP by themselves, but I wonder no more.

Over-the-toilet bathroom creation

A bit whimsical to call this jobber a “shelf,” so I guess it’s a “creation.” Oh good, maybe it counts as Art and I can get away with it being a bit eccentric. We have a tiny bathroom, and there doesn’t seem to be an over-the-toilet storage solution in all of New Zealand. You know, those flimsy shelves that you can get for $75 at Walmart? And lumber here is crazy expensive, so I found two old wooden chairs on Trademe for $1 and bought used paint (can you believe it?) at the second hand store for $4, new screws at the hardware store (you don’t want to know the cost) and cobbled together a solution. It’ll hold up the towels and toothpaste.

Lest you think life’s all smiles and giggles…

Rebecca mentioned to me just this morning how smiley Milo is, which is by-and-large true. But typically I only take photos when he’s happy, which isn’t a particularly balanced way of portraying life. Then Milo and Daddy had a grand noisy battle of the wills (which Milo won) behind the closed bathroom door at teeth-brushing time, and I had a perfect chance to photograph that sad face, replete with toothpaste decor. And what was all the fuss about? He just wanted MAMA to brush those teeth.

Hapuku Hut in Kaikoura Range

We had originally planned to go to Arthur’s pass this weekend, but the forecast was horribly rainy so we looked at the south island map and picked the only semi-dry forecast, the Kaikoura Range. The track is in the riverbed for the first 4.5 kilometers, then climbs uphill to Hapuku Hut where we planned to stay for two nights, just day-hiking on the second day, hiking back out on the third. Here we are in the gravelly river bed on our way in. What you can’t see is our feet, they’re in sandals. We crossed the river 12 times on the way to the hut and Kiwis just walk on through the knee-high water with their boots and all. It’s called “wet foot tramping,” not surprisingly. But we’re Americans, and keeping one’s boots dry while hiking is ingrained in our psyche. We couldn’t stomach the idea of our boots filled with water, squelchy and cold for the next three days, so we wore our sandals and abraded our feet with river grit. Putting on our warm dry socks and boots when we reached the hut was like slipping on sheep-skin slippers—ahhh!

Jeremiah brought his rifle along to go hunting in the evenings, but somehow grabbed the wrong key for his gun lock. Bummer! We were a good 2.5 hours from our house. But this is JEREMIAH, remember, with the legendary determination. He’s not going to be hornswaggled out of a hunting trip by a little thing like a lock. He took about half an hour to bash it with a rock, broke it open, and off we went.

It feels wild and exotic walking up a trackless river bed, turning a corner and seeing a waterfall cascading down into the gorge.

We shared the hut with three other folks who had come out to go hunting as well. First night I thought I’d be able to get Milo to go to sleep while they were all out stalking deer and the hut was quiet, but after two fruitless hours I gave up in frustration, having reached the limit of my patience. He finally fell asleep on his own terms, leaning up against Daddy, who, just freshly back from hunting, had a cushiony reserve of patience to dole out. The next night I just let him stay up until he was practically begging to go to sleep, then let him lay next to me and listen to a podcast with me. We were both much happier.

Here’s my little Milo Hobbit! He was pleased as punch to find himself a walking stick from the firewood pile and go striding off down the path to the stream. Until the big step down, of course, where he was still happy to reach for Mama’s hand. Not for much longer, I’m afraid.

“Look at ME, Mama! I’m a big boy and I’m going down to the stream to throw some rocks!” I remember the pleasure of playing in creeks as a kid, watching the water hump up around stones, the eddies moving my floating leaves back upstream. Milo loves it all.

The view? Who cares, when we have WATER to play in! Milo’s actually very good about sitting on the bank and throwing rocks, rather than wading into the fast-moving current.

The second day we hiked up to the saddle between two mountain peaks. The route followed a stream up into the arm of the mountain where the trail disappeared and you just make your way up the loose scree. Jeremiah, ever optimistic, carried his gun and binoculars to look for goats. We didn’t see any, but he did see deer down a little further on the shrubby slopes of the mountains.

Phew, you can tell how steep it is by how much Milo is huffing and puffing!

MMMM, COOKIE! Mama eats carrots but Milo sticks to cookies and cheese. There was still a little snow up here, but it wasn’t that cold. We ate our lunch perched on the saddle looking down one valley to Kaikoura and down the other to the Hapuku River. We met another American couple up there, the man was wearing a Cornell hat same as Jeremiah. It’s funny where you meet these Cornell people–and I’m starting to understand why Jeremiah treasures that red hat so. It’s a conversation-starter.

No deer to carry out, but that might be just as well since we’ve got the little bambino, and he’s no featherweight. It was raining and a bit chilly when we set out, so we stuffed him in his sleeping bag, this time with holes cut out for his feet. He’s got the Mama stocks over those feet, then Jeremiah’s gortex mittens. A pack cover completes the swaddling, and he stays mostly dry. He’d stay completely dry if only he’d keep his arms in, but he insists on dangling them out in the drizzle.

On the way out we resolved to try the “wet boot” method, because we had dry shoes waiting for us in the car. Kiwi’s insist that it’s “not that bad” and one even said the wet boots mold to one’s feet better, improving the fit of the boots. Taking that first step intentionally into cold water felt utterly wrong, but actually, the wet boot method did beat the gritty sandal method, and definitely had the upper hand over taking one’s boots on and off a dozen times. We didn’t have to put those boots on again in the morning though, we’ll have to see how we feel about that another time!

Packhorse hut walk

The Banks Penninsula, two ancient eroded volcanoes next to Christchurch, has an amazing network of hiking trails. This afternoon we chose a short walk up through sheep pastures to the Packhorse hut, built in 1916 in a saddle between the hills overlooking Lyttelton harbor. It’s amazing–30 minutes drive from our house in the city, 1 hour brisk walk, and a historic hut with mattresses, a wood stove, and only a $15 charge–you’d think the place would be full on a Saturday night. But there was nobody spending the night.

Peekaboo! The hut has a commanding view, and whether or not Milo appreciated the vista, he sure liked climbing the benches and peeping out the windows. The boxy thing next to the hut is the roof water collection tank.

Don’t worry Milo, we didn’t spend the night this time but we’ll be back. It’s so easy to get here that we could decide to go after work on Friday, grab our stuff, and be here in two hours. We might even be able to cajole another family with kids to hike up the hill and join us.

Jeremiah carried Milo up the hill, but he walked a bit on the way down, and was tickled pink to explore every cow pie he passed. Jeremiah’s not used to Milo’s pace, so he tried getting him to increase his focus by having him hang onto the hiking pole. It actually worked!

Victoria park with the ladies

This slide has the best view ever—the top looks out over Christchurch and what’s left of the city center, backed by snow-capped Southern Alps. Amelia is our 5-year-old friend, dressed up in pink for a day at the Victoria Park playground with 4 of us Moms and our kids. Playgrounds are perfect spots for mommy chats because as long as we come armed with crackers and water the kids are happy!

Whee! Milo’s not what you’d call timid when it comes to climbing and sliding. I turned around and first thing I knew he was on his way down by himself, grinning from ear to ear.

Backyard splish splash

We are still potty training, the reason for the bare bum. Milo can anticipate when he’ll need to go, but although the allure of M&M’s is motivational, it doesn’t seem to trump the pleasure of peeing on other random things out in the yard such as the clothesline pole, the flower beds, or a thin spot in the grass. And he has the control of a dog–he can go a little in the potty but saves some to use on the flowers the next minute. Ah well, he’s still young, as they say. Any advice, Oh Sage Mothers?
On a brighter side, the flowers in my recycled pallet wood plant boxes have started to bloom, as you can see in the foreground.

Playcenter pals

Milo paints with his new pal Aubrey at the Prebbleton playcenter, where paint on the floor is entirely permissible.

“Playcenter” is a NZ-style parent co-op that offers some child development classes and a place to bring your kids under 5 to let them play with other kids and make messes. Milo and I tried out the Prebbleton playcenter yesterday in the town next door because the Halswell playcenter is full, and we really liked it. The moms there were friendly and down-to-earth, unlike the Halwell playcenter where the mums in general were superior and self-congratulatory (“I just LOVE Playcenter, don’t you?” “We’re not just a playgroup, we’re educated parents training our children, did you read our website?”). Plus the Prebbleton playcenter has an adequate heating system, a serious plus. So we’ll be joining and going on Tuesday mornings.